Sunday, February 15, 2026

What would Lincoln do?

 HS #127 2026.2.12

 

What would Lincoln do?  

 

Getting to know historical figures, one learns of their foibles and weaknesses as well as their strengths. George Washington, great man to be sure, was stiff and aloof. Ben Franklin had strained personal relationships and was estranged from his son. Adams was described by Franklin as "always an honest man, often a wise one, but in some things absolutely out of his senses."  Jefferson was sometimes disingenuous, attacking his friends behind their backs, but unwilling to confront them face to face. 

 

On the other hand, Abraham Lincoln, whose birthday is today, was a giant – literally as well as figuratively. He deeply understood the U.S. experiment: government of the people, by the people, for the people, but also understood that to make the government work, we the people needed to be guided by our better angels. He had many close friends who loved him and recognized his greatness, and his moral sense ran deep. He was committed to finding truth, studying Euclid’s geometry to learn how to prove the veracity of an argument.  

 

But it is Lincoln’s sense of humor (often self-deprecating) counterbalanced by his melancholy that endears him to me. 

 

When accused of being two faced, he responded, “If I had another face, would I wear this one?”

Debating the short-in-stature Douglass, Lincoln was asked how long a man’s legs should be. “Long enough to reach the ground.” When one of his cabinet members died, an ambitious office-seeker asked Lincoln if he could take the dead man’s place. Lincoln replied that certainly the coffin-laid man would presumably also like to trade places. 

 

Lincoln entertained his friends with humorous true stories. His favorite concerned the Revolutionary War hero, Ethan Allen, who visited England several years after the war. Asking to use a toilet, Allen was ushered to an outhouse where he discovered the British, still smarting from their defeat, had hung a picture of George Washington on the inside wall. Exiting the biffy, Allen announced, “Good thinking, gentlemen. Nothing makes an Englishman shit faster than a picture of George Washington.” 

 

As he bore the burden of leading a fractured country, Lincoln’s humor acquired an edge. Exasperated with the lentitude of Union General McClellan to fight, Lincoln asked, “If you’re not going to use your army, do you mind if I borrow it for a while.” Lincoln admitted, “With the fearful strain that is on me night and day, if I did not laugh, I should die.” 

 

Indeed, melancholy was equally part of Lincoln’s personality. Distraught about love, his friends took his razors for fear of him killing himself. As a young man, Lincoln admitted to a friend, “If what I feel were equally distributed to the whole human family, there would not be one cheerful face on earth.” 

 

Lincoln’s humor and melancholy both emanated from his honest acknowledgment of and willingness to face the truth about the world, while earnestly seeking solutions.  Therefore, I wonder, “What would Lincoln do in our present situation?” 

 

In his article, “We Are Witnessing the Self-Immolation of a Superpower”, Garrett Graff lists six significant ways that the U.S. is presently emasculating itself by ripping away these historic strengths: i) Easy access of immigrants and foreign students to our world-class universities, ii) Generous government support of higher education and medical/scientific research, iii) Broad and easy trade access to and from U.S. markets, iv) Strict adherence to the Rule of Law, 

v) Firm network of international alliances, vi) Independent monetary policy. 

 

Taken together these have given the U.S. unrivaled influence and leadership in the world. But in the past year all have been irrevocably damaged and minimized. Would Lincoln have ideas to gain back the international friendships and respect we have lost and are losing? 

 

What about at home? The violence at the U.S. Capitol on January 6, 2021 was not as significant as the violence done to Truth. The Capitol Police are now blamed for it and those who smashed, sprayed and beat are heralded as loving patriots. More recent lies about killings by ICE agents further undermine trust in our current government. “Alternative facts” abound. 

 

These are serious concerns. How would “honest Abe” restore a nation whose current administration has forsaken truth and morality? The U.S. is in urgent need of moral, truthful, Lincoln-styled leadership which challenges us to our better angels. Lincoln declared, “I have faith in the people . . Let them know the truth, and the country is safe.” Join me in living truthfully, seeking Lincoln’s ideal.   

 

 

Thursday, January 8, 2026

New Year's Resolution: Being Kind

 HS #126 2026.1.8

 

New Year’s Resolution: Being Kind

 

Those who know me well would likely agree that I have a quick temper. So, many years ago while in Hope College’s Mathematics Department, I told my colleagues and office staff that my New Year’s resolution was to avoid saying anything out of line, and that, to motivate me, I carried a $10 bill in my wallet to give to the first person I snapped at. 

 

Unintended consequences. After a week or so of successfully showing my good intentions, the $10 became a booby prize because it demonstrated that some unlucky soul had done something so egregious that they had thwarted my best laid plans. Gladly, I have forgotten who won the prize. 

 

However, being kind to others may not be a bad resolution for all of us to attempt. I see admonitions to “Be Kind” with increasing frequency. A friend has as his email signature line, “If you be anything in life, be kind.” Schools and churches put it on their outdoor signs. 

 

I remember a quote from a Reader’s Digest, “Today I may have sacrificed truth for kindness, but that doesn’t greatly concern me, because I’m more sure of what is kind than of what is true.”

 

 NPR recently carried a story explaining that being kind to others leads to a better, longer, and healthier life. 

 

The reason is easy to understand. Kindness prevents unpleasant situations and promotes harmonious living. Who gets hurt when we are kind? Last fall, during the Grand Rapids Art Prize, an exhibit in DeVos Hall stated, “We all do better when we all do better.”  Don’t we all do better when we are all kind to each other? 

 

In fact, admonitions to be kind reach back millennia. Being kind to others is certainly a corollary of Jesus’s “Golden Rule” to treat others as we want to be treated. And even the ancient Stoics included kindness as one of their principles to live by. 

 

Yet, if we’re going to get philosophical about it, let’s include Aristotle’s Golden Mean. Aristotle wisely cautioned us against taking anything to the extreme. 

 

But, hey, what balance is needed in being kind? Well, let’s go back to the above quote from the Readers’ Digest. Yes, perhaps it IS easier to determine what is kind than what is true, but isn’t truth sometimes so important that it’s worth the risk even though compromising kindness? 

 

In similar spirit, my hero Teddy Roosevelt once said, “If given the choice between Righteousness and Peace, I choose Righteousness.” 

 

 Years ago, the Hope College student newspaper, The Anchor, carried a letter from a student disgusted with the destructive antics of his fellow students. I had a few thoughts to contribute, but figured that any lecture from a professor would be dismissed immediately by the offenders. So I wrote a tongue-in-cheek letter defending the juvenile behavior in the hope that, by the end, they would realize I was poking fun at them. 

 

Unfortunately, my subtle approach succeeded so well that I got several letters from faculty and administrators chastising me for my remarks. Telling my fellow-faculty racquetball partner about it later that day, he replied with words I’ve never forgotten, “You hate you always err on the side of caution.” 

 

Indeed! Yes – that is my life motto – he hit it!  It’s easy to “play it safe” in life. To keep out of trouble by not taking chances with people. And being kind to others MAY be motivated by avoiding risk. In fact, there is a descriptive phrase heard here-abouts, “West Michigan Nice” describing the avoidance of conflict by eschewing substantive discussion. 

 

Instead, the worthy challenge is to be kind in a substantive, even sacrificial, way that cares for the other person, while treating them with the respect which may include honesty and risk. 

 

Are you familiar with the Antarctic explorer, Earnest Shackleton, whose ill-fated voyage caused him and his men to abandon ship and trek back home over the ice-covered continent? His trip is detailed in the riveting book, The Endurance.  In Munising MI, I met the daughter of the only American on that venture. He told her of “shenanigans” by Shackleton and the officers when they all drew straws to determine who would get the warm fur-lined sleeping bags. It “just so happened” that ALL of the good bags were drawn by the sailors, leaving the poorer bags for Shackleton and the officers. 

 

THAT’S kindness - that’s kindness that is sacrificial and that matters.